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In This Issue

 
  1. Editor's Notes
  2. Laid off or fired? You’re not alone (Part 3 of 4) — Eight experts offer advice on what to do when you’re let go
  3. He Said, She Said — Examining gender differences in communication
  4. Maximizing the Reference Checking Process — What to do when they ask for your references
  5. Ask The Experts — Submit your questions to our staff of experts
  6. Marketplace — Resources & Services
 

Editor's Notes

 

Happy Spring! Almost. The harsh winter seems to finally be ending. Time to start thinking about Spring time and fresh beginnings. It’s the perfect time for initiating a change or changes in your life.

Thanks to everyone who already completed our first Reader Survey. We’ve learned a lot about what you like and, equally importantly, what you don’t. If you haven’t answered the poll please take a few minutes to complete it. It takes only about five minutes.

Over the next few months we’ll be making some changes, primarily adding new services which we hope you’ll find valuable. Don’t worry we’ll still be bringing you plenty of great free content.

In the last issue, we ran Laid Off or Fired? You’re Not Alone (Part 2) as the lead article. It was the most-read articles ever to run in any newsletter. In this issue you’ll find Part 3 of the four-part series. Here eight career experts offer advice on how to answer the question, “Why did you leave your last position? When you were fired or the only one laid off. Stay tuned for Part 4 on how to alleviate an employer’s concerns when you’ve been out of work for several months.

Ever notice the different ways men and women communicate? In He Said, She Said you’ll find several characteristics of each gender. I’m sure the lists will help you see why gender differences make communication so complicated.

The final results of our February Office Romance poll are in: 21.88% of respondents said they had dated a co-worker, 6.25% said they would date a co-worker, 59.38% said they would never date a co-worker and 12.5% said maybe. Please take a moment to answer this Month’s poll “Would you rather work for a male or female boss?” We’ll give you the final results in an upcoming newsletter.

Thanks again for your continued interest in career-intelligence.com. I hope you'll enjoy this issue as much as we enjoyed putting it together. As always, please contact me directly at arichmond@career-intelligence.com with any thoughts, comments or suggestions.

It's your life, make the most of it :)

Annette Richmond

 
 

Eight experts offer advice on what to do when you’re let go

By Annette Richmond

Even in a good economy, people lose their jobs. Sometimes it comes out of the blue; sometimes you can see the writing on the walls. Whatever the circumstances it’s always demoralizing.

For this reason, I reached out to several experts with the hope of providing a few tips on what to do when you’re let go. What I got back was a ton of great advice. Everyone’s take was a little different. And I didn’t want to leave anything out.

Hence the one-off article became a four-part series covering the broad topic of “what to do when you’re let go.” In part one, our eight experts answered my first question, “What are the first three things you should do when you are laid off or fired?” Part two consisted of their responses to my second question, “What is the biggest mistake people make when they’re let go?“

In Part three they advise how to answer the question, “Why did you leave your last position?” when you are fired or the only one laid off. Here’s what they had to say.

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Examining gender differences in communication

By Annette Richmond

Most of us don’t think a lot about communication. After all, we’ve been communicating since we were kids. As babies we learned about the world by listening. And we quickly learned to get what we wanted by crying.

We’ve been communicating as long as we can remember. It comes naturally.

Right?

Wrong.

Being an effective communicator doesn’t come naturally to most people. Too many things get in the way.

Some of the biggest obstacles to effective communication are cultural differences. In the United States, for example, we are taught to look people in the eye when speaking to them. It indicates interest and demonstrates confidence. However, in Japan direct eye contact can be considered rude.

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What to do when they ask for your references

By Anne Marie Cross

The employment meeting went extremely well. The interviewer was impressed with your abilities; you answered the questions superbly; and you were able to develop an excellent rapport with the interviewer and other staff at the company.

So, now just the reference checking process, BUT, unfortunately you did not make it to the following stage. Why not? Everything went so well. What possibly could have gone wrong?

How often do I hear similar comments from candidates who are at an absolute loss as to why after such great interviews, their applications have been denied.

Have you ever thought that perhaps your reference may be letting you down?

The general procedure a candidate follows in locating and providing references to support their application is either to:

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Interview Expert

 

Professional Image Expert

Carole Martin is a coach with over 18 years in Human Resources Management. She is an acknowledged expert in the use of behavioral interviewing techniques.

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Style expert Bridgette Raes is the author of Style Rx: Dressing the Body You Have to Create the Body You Want and the president of the NYC based style consulting company for women, Bridgette Raes Style Group.

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Resume Writing Expert

 

Career Development Expert

Annemarie Cross is a multi-award winning, triple certified Professional Resume Writer, Career Management Specialist, Speaker, and Author of 10 key steps to Ace that Interview!

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Annette Richmond, MA, is founder and editor of career-intelligence.com and The Career Intelligencer. She is author of several publications, ebooks and interactive workbooks on career management.

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